4/17/2014

Signs of herpes at the early stage

It is important for people to know the information on the signs of herpes at the early stage. Some of the signs and symptoms of oral herpes are cold sores around the mouth, the nose area or facial region, sores inside the mouth or on the tongue. Some of the signs and symptoms of genital herpes are a rash, cold sores, a bump or a lump. Herpes could also cause muscle pain, cramps, burning, itching or tingling feeling. The signs and symptoms of herpes varies from person to person. 
Here is the detail information on what herpes look like.
A Cold Sore:
Before a cold sore appears the area will sometimes tingle,feel slightly raised and may appear red and inflamed.This pain or tingling sensation is called the prodrome and typically occurs  1 to 2 days before the cold sore apprears.

A cold sore generally apprears as a small, fluid-filled blister which goes through a cycle of phases. The blister will usually weep and form a scab or 'crusting' before healing and disappreaing completely. The duration of a typical cold sore outbreak may last from 8 to 12 days.

Stages of cold sore
Stages of code sore
Genital Herpes:
One or more of the following symptoms may be experienced if the infection is located in the genital area:
1. Muscle aches or pains near to the area.
2. A lister, cut,tear, sore,bump or rash in the infected area
3. Itching,tingling,or burning sensations.
4. Vaginal or penile discharge.
5. Burning and/or pain when urinating
6. Flu-like symptoms such as headache,fever and swollen glands.
Time before any symptoms show
Herpes Incubation Period.
The hepres virus can lay dormant for various time periods and may be in your system for a time period before any symptoms begin to show. The usual incubation period of the virus is appoximately two to twelve days after the first exposure to the virus.
However, there are many possibilities. Some people never experience active symptoms and others may not experience a recognizable outbreak for several months or even years after exposure.
Recurring Symptoms
What is an outbreak or episode ?
Most of the time when herpes symptoms are not present on the skin the virus remains in a latent state in the central nervous system,where it does no damage. When the virus reactivates it travels nerve paths to the surface of the skin,sometimes causing what is known as an 'outbreak' or episode of symptoms.
When and where can outbreaks reoccur ?
The first outbreak is normally the worst and many people do not experience a recurrence until months and sometimes even years after their first primary outbreak.
If and when a recurrence does happen it is sometimes related to a time when the immune system is weakened or under pressure, such as after an illness, during times of stress, due to a poor lifestyle,surgery,etc. In the case of cold sores,sometimes being in the sun can cause a recurrence. It is different for everyone.
During the body's first exposure to the herpes virus, the immune system develops antibodies and other weapons against the virus. During a recurrence, then, this 'immune memory' can hep to fight off infection more quickly.
As a result, as time goes on there are usually fewer sores, they heal fater, and the outbreak is less painful. Some people never experience another recurrence, which is often attibuted to a strong immune system response.
Nerves can have many 'axons' which is why the herpes virus can travel different pathways to your skin. This is why outbreaks may naturally appear in differnet areas 'nearby' to one another.

However, each nerve has particular area of skin that it serves called a dermatome. The herpes lesions are limited to the dermatome it initially infected unless you infect yourself somewhere else.
The nerves in the genitals,upper thighs and buttocks are connected. Therefore, in the case of genital herpes a person could experience outbreaks in any of these areas. Such areas include the vagina,vulva, penis, scrotum,anus,buttocks and thigh.
Herpes around the mouth
Herpes around the mouth

What should you do if you think you have herpes ?
If you have noticed something different don't delay.
If you suspect that you have herpes and have not had your condition diagnosed it is important that you visit your health care provider as soon as possible for a professional analysis.
Genital herpes can be mistaken for many different conditions and should always be diagnosed professionally.
You need to take medicine as needed and living healthy reduce the chance of getting a herpes outbreak. 

3/14/2014

STD and Sexuality

It seems that as soon as we are told we have an STD our sexuality becomes psychologically tainted. We are forced to questioned our moral values and made to feel like an adolescent trying to feel comfortable with being sexual beings.
At least, that's how I felt. I felt like I had to prove I was still sexy and worthy to be embraced. I think I took it too far though. Being comfortable in my own skin again and living with an STD takes time. This reminds me of when I began to develop breast. I was so worried people would know. I hated breast. All of the sudden I wasn't daddy's little girl. I was a woman? THE FUCK EWWW! My mom and sister loved it because they had one on me since they were girly girls. I now HAD to conform to this world of bit@hes that I knew nothing of. MANNERS! You have to have manners. Then when I finally accepted my womanhood, BOOM! an STD of the worst type. God must have a sense of humor. It wasn't until I gave birth to my first born son and experienced lactation, that, I figured out, "Oh that's what those things do." I couldn't breastfeed so I would stand in the shower and squirt the milk to the wall and laugh. I realized how wonderful we are made. Just perfect in every way!
 
I have to embrace this body with all it's flaws. I have accept I'm getting older. I have to accept I have company that never leaves. Life is good! Press on people. This life is worth living no matter what.

2/20/2014

How can we cope with depression from having an STD?

  • Being diagnosed with an STD changes a person's dating life. It could also affect an individual's social life. I can understand why being diagnosed with an STD causes sadness or depression. It's important to realize that anyone who had or has could catch herpes. Never feel like it's your fault. Negative thoughts are going to race in your mind. Slow down and think carefully about those thoughts. Often when a life changing situation happens we tend to think cloudy and negative. Many negative thoughts often aren't completely true. Always remember some partners will except you having herpes and other's won't Telling a partner about your situation shows you care about others and that your honest. Meeting your match depends mostly on how strong a couple feels rather than you having herpes. Plus if safe sex happens the chance of passing herpes to a partner could be very low. Take medication if needed, education a partner about how herpes is spread and safe sex. Most important continue being social and doing the things you enjoy. Exercisng, getting out of the house releases dopamine. Dopamine is a chemical in the brain that causes pleasure. It's important not to be homebound. A person who doesn't leave the house should at least force himself or herself to go for a walk. 

1/16/2014

What is the difference between HSV-1 and HSV-2 ?

HSV-1 and HSV-2
Both strains of herpes could spread orally and genitally. HSV-1 is typically oral herpes. HSV-1 is responsible for 90-95% of oral herpes outbreaks. HSV-2 causes 5-10% of oral herpes outbreaks.

HSV-2 is usually referred to as genital herpes. HSV-2 causes 90-95% of genital herpes outbreaks. HSV-1 causes 510% of genital herpes outbreaks.

HSV-1 is typically spread by kissing seem the virus is usually oral herpes. HSV-2 is usually spread by genitally seem the virus is often genital herpes. Both strains of herpes are spread by coming in direct genital or anal skin to skin contact with the virus. Herpes could spread to a partner orally if oral sex happens

1/10/2014

Hopeless single herpes woman finally found her love at a herpes dating site

Herpes Dating Canada
Lisa Johns, who is from Toronto, Canada, found she had HSV-1 in 2011. She said: "When I got Herpes, it was from someone who pretended to be my friend for three years. He knew he had it and he really didn't give a crap about if I got it or not. He flat out lied to me and told me he had had a clean std test. When I turned up with it a week later, he told me to go to the doctor and ask them for Valtrex. "You will be fine." He told me.

Needless to say, I didn't have a lot of faith in humanity or men left after that happened to me. When I found this site I was too scared to date or to seek out a relationship. I had told several people about my new found curse and had mixed reactions. This site gave me the confidence and understanding I needed to be happy.

I met Jeff in the summer time of 2013. He was the second person I met off this site. I wouldn't say we had sparks immediately due to my history and reluctance. But there was definitely something about him I wanted to know more of. We met on the Quay in New Westminster for a stroll on one of the hottest days of the year. We never really were apart after that. He is patient and understanding, sweet and caring. I definitely found my match, and it was all thanks to this website and the people who organized it. For that I thank you! For others in my position; there is someone out there for you and bad things happen to good people. All you can do is move on and accept nothing less than the best for yourself. Thanks for reading my story."

There are thousands of herpes singles from Canada and other countries all over the world. Around half of them have started their e-life for dating with other herpes singles. Here are the tips for them to have herpes dating online:

For herpes guys messaging girls, don't copy/paste messages and mass send them. You are not fooling anyone and we know you do it. Be polite and use proper spelling and grammar. No woman wants an unintelligent and ill-educated man. If that's what you are, you should go on a site like POF and stop wasting everyone's time on a niche herpes dating site that is for STD Dating only.

12/19/2013

Herpes dating sites are giving more chances to herpes singles to find love

Herpes Love
Herpes Love
Maybe we are different from other normal people ?
Though we have herpes, we still want love and family.
Though our original lovers leave us, we still want care and dating.
Everyone may be given herpes suddenly. But we all are the same and we all have the right to love and to be loved.

Because of the herpes, many herpes singles have very low successful dating ratio off-line.People are afraid of being given herpes if they have dating with herpes singles. "How to help those herpes singles find their romance and love?" is becoming one of the most difficulties for the world.

Many herpes singles are still trying to find their matches through some general dating sites. But the problem is that they are not likely tell others they have herpes or some other STD at the first beginning. Usually, this makes things difficult when they are trying to go further.

Since 2002, some niche dating sites were set up by some famous dating companies. This gives hope and more chance to herpes to find true love and start dating again. At those herpes dating sites, you don't need to worry about that people will reject you since all people here have STD. You don't need to hide anything when you want to flirt someone. Everyone is open and honest.

" I am 35 and I have HSV-1 for nearly 5 years. I live in Mountain View and I work in a factory. I want to find someone who has the same STD type. I suppose he will be handsome and have a good sense of humor. Yes, if I find him in my area, we will get married.At least, we can be good friends." ( Said by Kate Stone who just created profile at HerpesDatingSite.com )

There are many STD singles like Kate Stone creating profiles on different herpes dating sites in hope to find other herpes singles for dating and love.Here are the top 3 popular herpes dating sites for them.

1. PositiveSingles.com - It is the most successful and largest dating sites for herpes singles,HPV singles and HIV singles.

2. HSVSingles.com - One of the most popular dating sites for HSV singles.

3. HerpesDatingSite.com - Best herpes dating site for singles with herpes and other STDs ! Low membership fee.

If you are finding dating in your local area, you can also try out these sites.

1. Lovebug.net.au - STD dating site for Australians.
2. STDDatingAustralia.com.au - The best and largest STD dating site for singles with herpes in Australia.
3. HerpesDatingSite.co.uk - Herpes Dating Site for herpes singles from UK.

How to increase the chance for those herpes singles and STD singles to find love successfully online ? Here are the 4 tips for them.

1. Be honest
2. Try to find the one who has the same type of STD with you
3. Give advice and share your experience.
4. Protect you and your partner.




12/09/2013

Does it cause pain if people have herpes ?

uncomfortable with herpes

This is not something about herpes dating. This is actually a herpes care tip for people with herpes. We post it here since we have many people keep questioning us on this.

Herpes virus may cause burning,itching or tingling on your skin. These feelings could occur even if there aren't active herpes outbreaks. Herpes sores will make you uncomfortable. Herpes sores may hurt during urination. A warm bath could ease pain from herpes sores. I suggest that people wear cotton underwear or boxers during herpes outbreaks. If your are experiencing pain or discomfort from herpes outbreaks speak to your doctor. Medication such as Valtrex and Acyclovir could be prescribed if needed. Hope this will helpful to people with herpes.